Over the course of 9 months in 2017, my partner and I sold all of our possessions, including 2 vehicles, and a house full of stuff. In order to sell the house for its maximum value, we also completed 3 months of renovations that had been lingering for over 3 years. We wrapped up 2 businesses and left a town and tight knit community that we both cherished. We did all of this in order to seek out a life of freedom, away from the hustle and bustle of the 9-5 life, but most importantly, we did it so that we could travel. This is our story…….
Today marks one year since we made this crazy decision to sell all of our things, to not only seek out a life of travel, but to free ourselves of the burdens that society had placed on us. (To read my post that day, click here.)
We had found ourselves suddenly drowning in debt with no clear picture of how we were going to get out of it. We were living a life that seemed normal to others, but was terribly uninteresting and uninspiring to us. We both made and created art, but because of our need to make money doing our “REAL” jobs, we didn’t have the time to properly sell it or promote it, something we really wanted to do.
We lived a life that was the epitome of being on the hamster wheel. Running, running, running, working ourselves to utter exhaustion, but never getting ahead.
I asked myself all the time: “Is there more to life than this?”
I knew there was, I knew there had to be, but I didn’t know how to get there. I didn’t know how to pay all the bills at home, keep my house, keep my car, keep my things, keep my small business, and still do the thing that I really wanted to do…….travelling.
As I sat in my art studio one year ago, I was watching ‘Minimalism’ a new documentary that had just come out on Netflix, while working on my creations. As I watched this enlightening documentary, in the most quintessential way possible, I had an epiphany. It was as though a lightening bolt blasted down from the heavens and jolted me in the back of the head. From that film, I suddenly realized that my house, my car, all of my stuff, was actually what was keeping me from travelling. All of the stuff, was literally drowning us. All of the stuff was what was making us feel like we were treading water. All of the stuff was what was keeping me from doing what I wanted to do the most.
I say this in a first person narrative because Chris, at that point, hadn’t travelled a ton. We had done a 6 week trip to Europe in 2015, and had done a 2 week trip to Mexico, but that was it. He understood that he liked travelling, but he didn’t really know what it was like to LIVE in a different country, to really spend time learning different cultures, customs and traditions, and to learn about what makes different places tick. He had had a taste, that was all. But thankfully, he too decided that he wanted more.
On that fateful evening, we decided that enough was enough! All of our stuff didn’t matter anymore! The only thing that mattered was making our life count! We knew in that moment, that we had some HUGE changes ahead of us, and we knew it would be a ton of work, but we were committed. We had a plan, it was set, and we immediately got started on undoing the life we had built, to seek out a vastly different one. One that was fulfilling, one that was inspiring, one that was EXCITING!
Fast forward one year later, and it all seems like a distant dream. In nine months we held multiple garage sales, we sold items on Facebook, to friends, to neighbours. We took mountains of things to the thrift store and inevitably, the dump. We finished renovations on our house that had been half done for over 3 years. We sold our vehicles and our house. We closed down our business’ and we worked our butts off to pay off as much debt as possible. We stopped drinking, eating out and buying things. We completely flipped our life upside down, in order to make this happen, in order to unburden ourselves, in order to seek out a life of freedom.
It was not an easy ride! We were utterly exhausted most of the time. We put in as much effort as we physically could, and worked harder than either of us ever had before. But guess what? It worked! We did it!
Our life has gone from “normal” to extraordinary, and it happened all in 9 months!
Today I sit in Costa Rica, staring out to the waves breaking, to the pelicans soaring by, and sometimes, to a sloth climbing the tree in our front yard. Today I feel FREE! Today the worries about money, how I’m going to pay the next bill, how I’m going to find the next client, and how I’m going to be able to travel again, are gone. Literally gone!
Don’t get me wrong, life is not a perfect, easy, breezy time, all of the time. Of course, we are both working on ways to secure a financial future, as the money we now have will run out eventually. But we are doing it with clear intentions. We are focussing on what is important to us. We are seeking out those things that inspire us, that motivate us, that move us. We are going where the wind blows us. When we see a good opportunity, we take it. If we don’t like the situation we are in, we change it. We don’t owe anyone our time. We certainly don’t owe anyone our souls. We are in charge of what we do, that is it, that is all.
Many people we meet ask the same question over and over again. They hear about what we are doing now, but then they can’t help but ask “But what about your future? What is your plan for the future?”
Well, the answer if simple. We have no real plan for our future. We are simply just being. Being in the moment, taking life one day at a time, enjoying ourselves and really getting to know ourselves. We have given ourselves the gift of presence. We have given ourselves the gift of living each day as it comes. We don’t know what is around the corner, and quite frankly we like it that way. Our future is not some construct that we have laid out, hoping that all of the pieces fall into place the way that we have planned. Our future is determined one day at a time. Each day determines tomorrow’s path. Each day brings new directions, new thoughts, and new opportunities.
And so, I ask you this. Are you living a life that is inspiring and exciting? Is there something that you would like to do, but just can’t quite figure out how to do it?
My advice is simple, take a hard look around you and find ways to let go of what is burdening you. Maybe you are like me and you realize that it is your stuff that is weighing you down. But maybe it is your job, your relationship, the place you live, the people you surround yourself with? There can be any number of things that we carry around with us that are holding us back from doing what it is that we really want to do in life. But it is up to us, and ONLY us, to figure those things out, to let go of those things, and to build a life that we truly love.
Pura Vida from Costa Rica!
Thanks for reading! Please know that above all else, I aim to inspire others to just get out and see the world. Traveling is such an enriching experience, and I can’t even comprehend how much it has shaped me as an individual. If you have ANY questions, or need travel advice of ANY kind, PLEASE don’t hesitate to email me at the address below! I will do my very best to help you in any way I can!
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