In 2017 we packed up our life, and quit the 9-5 to head out into the world. We came with no expectations, we only wanted to experience life. Since we have left, we have packed more fun and adventure into our lives than we ever could have imagined. Being on the road now for over a year, has brought with it the freedom to explore what it is that we want to do to create an income for ourselves, the time to pay attention to the things that are truly important to us, and the adventure to truly make life fun and interesting once again. We left seeking an exciting life, and we have not been disappointed! Join us as we explore as much of this big old world that we can!
Saturday, September 14th marked the completion of something that I have been working on for roughly 8 months now. I held a successful SURPRISE 50th Wedding Anniversary party for my parents, in the mountain town that I grew up in, Canmore, Alberta, Canada.
When I first came up with this idea, I just felt that this was an important anniversary for them, and it deserved to be celebrated. Because I knew that we had plans to be back in my hometown this summer, I knew that I needed to make this happen.
My initial thoughts of a small and intimate celebration, amongst their usual friends in Canmore, somehow became something so large, that I was inviting friends and family members from across Canada. At first I thought that I would just reach out to people, just to let them know, at the very least, that they had this milestone anniversary coming. I didn’t actually expect people to respond so positively, but over time, and as more and more people started saying yes, I could feel something really special building.
People were really excited about coming! I soon realized that, not only my parents, but, I was going to see so many faces that I hadn’t seen in YEARS (in some cases……17 years!!) As more and more people got on board, I became not only excited about the surprise itself, I just became excited about the entire event and the simple thrill of getting people together.
Every existing and living person in my Dad’s family convened in one place for the first time in decades! I don’t think we had ALL been in one place since I was 16! There was always somebody away travelling, or simply just too busy to make a trip to see the rest for previous gatherings, but this time everybody made it!
So much happiness!
The amount of happiness and pure joy coming from the participants of this gathering was astounding and I realized that we ALL needed this party. It was just SO GOOD to see everybody, for old and new friends to meet, for everyone to get together, to remember the good times, and to get caught up and reconnect. It felt to me like a good ol’ fashioned happy gathering, of which I remember many from my childhood. It felt to me like everybody just needed a reason to celebrate something, to revel in joy and happiness, to get away from all of the sad news for once.
This party turned out to be not only for my parents, but for all of us. For those of us who need to remember how good it feels to be surrounded by people that are important to us. For those of us who may always feel like we are just too busy to go to these sorts of gatherings. For those of us who feel like it’s just been too long, and maybe we are almost too embarrassed to get in contact again.
I was able to do this because I had the time to do it!
When the excitement died down from the party, and after I had a couple of days to reflect on things, it dawned on me that the only reason that I was able to host this party, and pull it off so flawlessly, is because I had the time and energy to do it. I wasn’t distracted by building a career, or by working to pay the large debt load that I was carrying back before I cut my ties to society in 2017. I wasn’t distracted by trying to run businesses, deal with my household, or the fact that I was too far away to possibly be able to do something like this. In the past, I only had time for short visits to Canmore, 5 days max normally. My life was on the West Coast of Canada, a 14 hour (on a good day) drive to get home. I had businesses, a garden, animals, and any other manner of reasons of why I was too busy to get away for longer.
In my old life, I might have been too exhausted to organize something of this magnitude, I simply would not have had the time. The pressures of life may have been too overwhelming to have even CONSIDERED attempting such a feat.
So many people congratulated me on my ability to put this party together, to seamlessly invite so many people, and take care of so many details. I have now realized that I was able to organize this party as well as I did ONLY because I have radically changed my life. BECAUSE I pulled myself away from the hamster wheel that I was on, I am now able to focus on the things that make me happy, and bring joy and fulfillment to my life. And of course, as it does, my joy and happiness, is now reverberating out to those that are around me, and they too can partake in those parts of my life that I am happy and passionate about.
After the party, we drove home with Chris’ mom, staying both at her house and going to Saskatoon to visit Chris’ Grandma and Aunt, for about a week. Along the way, we also saw another 2 sets of Aunt’s and Uncles of his, and it was so great to say hi and check in with them all again. Chris’ mom lives outside of Daysland, a town in central Alberta with a population of 824 people. It is just one of hundreds of small towns like it, that are scattered throughout the prairies of Canada. There is usually one small main street with quaint shops lining its sides, plus just a handful of other streets surrounding it, where the main population lives. Daysland is no different than the rest, as it also serves the farmers that live out in the countryside, away from town limits, and seemingly, the rest of society itself.
This is where Chris’ mom lives, about a 15 minute drive outside of town, amongst a small grouping of trees that block out the winds that sweep the perfectly flat prairies. She spoiled us rotten with incredible produce from her garden, and her continuous baking and cooking. We had some lovely moments on the back deck, just sitting together in the bright, warm, prairie sun. The 9 or so kittens that she currently has, didn’t hurt our stay either, and neither did the fact that because it was way out in the prairies, it was vast and oh so quiet.
Finding old friends.
Chris and I found ourselves in Old’s, Alberta this past week where we were housesitting for a few days. We were taking care of a dog for two high school friends of mine that, after 15+ years of not seeing each other, found a romantic connection, and are now getting married.
Although I had seen Jess a few times in recent years, usually only for quick interactions, I hadn’t seen Paul since shortly after high school. We spent a whole day and night with them before they left on their trip, and in no time at all, the three of us were sharing memories from those days gone by, unlocking times and events that had occurred, pulling them deep from our memories. It was almost like a time machine, the more time we spent together, the more we remembered, and the more we connected with our shared histories. Somehow we were all being re-introduced to each other, our discussions fell into easy rhythm, and we realized that although we hadn’t seen each other in years, we all still enjoyed each others company, and it was clear why we were all friends in high school to begin with.
We took care of their lovely dog Zita and their rabbit Bun Bun. Jess had left us her vehicle, so we were able to get around more than we usually would be able to, so we took advantage of it and drove to other communities to visit my cousin in Sylvan Lake one day, and Chris’ sister in Rocky Mountain House, on another. It was such a beautiful time of year to drive around as the leaves on the trees here have now mostly turned an incredible bright yellow, but you can also catch glimpses of bushes with bold oranges and drastic reds scattered amongst them. As we drove through the landscape, the wash of colours passing our windows was sometimes breathtaking. I had forgotten just how amazing that fall and its drastic seasonal shift is, and it’s been wonderful to again witness such a stunning time of year.
On what was supposed to be our second last night housesitting and taking care of the animals for Jess and Paul, disaster struck. Every house sitters worst nightmare played out in front of us and their dog became suddenly very ill. After seeming fine in the morning, going on a long walk and eating her regular meal, by 7:00 that night she was definitely not fine. It started with throwing up blood, then diarrhea, and things went from bad to worse really quickly.
I won’t fill in all the details of the roughly 4 hours from then, only to say that sadly, just as the Emergency Veterinarian arrived, Zita took her last breath and her heart stopped.
Words can’t describe our feelings of such an event happening on our watch. I didn’t truly believe that she was as sick as she was until the inevitable happened. I just kept thinking that the Vet was going to arrive, and everything would be sorted out. I replay the day over and over in my head, wondering if she ate something she shouldn’t have on the walk, wondering if I let her stick her nose in a bush just a little too long for her to find poison, or something like that. But these are all questions that will never be answered, and I gently remind myself that she was also an old dog. She likely died simply of old age, and we just happened to be the ones there to witness the passing.
I am sad for my friends who have lost their family member, without getting to say goodbye. I can’t imagine how it feels to leave your house in one way, then returning to find it has changed beyond what you could have ever imagined. The fact that they are dear friends to me, makes it much harder as well. I feel their sadness, and wish that I could somehow rewind the clock, to pick a different ending for their holiday.
In this life that we have chosen, we have learned that it’s not just physical possessions that we let go of, it’s also feelings and emotions that we attach to places, people and animals that we are introduced to along the way. Through our housesitting, we have now become friends with quite a few different animals that we have cared for, and each time we leave them, we have to say goodbye and let them go. Sometimes it’s easier than other times, but it is generally just sad. We emotionally prepare ourselves for these events though, as we always know that we will be leaving at some point, and can ration our sadness out over time. But with Zita, it didn’t work that way. We’ve also had to let Zita go, of course, but with her it was oh so different. Letting go of our emotions attached to this event will take longer than usual, but in time we will all heal from this tragedy.
Zita was such a kind and gentle soul, and such a good girl. We are both very thankful to have had the chance to meet her and spend the precious time that we did have with her. My thoughts go out to Paul and Jess as they navigate their new world without such an amazing dog in their lives.
Rest in Peace Zita.
Despite our sadness for what transpired recently, our first month back in Canada has been really wonderful. We have caught up with much of our families, seen a few friends, adjusted to the North American ways again, and are feeling better than ever about this life we have chosen. If nothing else, it has provided us with time. Past visits were harried and exhausting affairs, trying to see all and do all in only a few days. But now we feel like we really do have the energy to spend the time doing only what is important to us, like visiting friends and family, and that is the most freeing feeling in the world .
Where Are We Now?
We returned back to Canmore, Alberta, my hometown, just a couple days ago, and have started a new housesitting job. We are taking care of an adorable little dog that looks to have part Weiner, Daschund and Doberman in him. His name is Napolean, and the name just suits him great! He loves to snuggle and, I have to say, is keeping me nice and toasty in the evenings when we are sitting on the couch. The SNOW has started to fly here, and we find ourselves pretty much cold ALL THE TIME. 2 years in the tropics has softened us up much more than we could have imagined!
Originally we had thought that we would only stay here until the end of October, but Chris is starting a guest tattoo spot in a very busy tattoo shop in Banff on October 1st, so we have decided that it may make sense to stay for a while. Which can only mean that it will get MUCH colder than this before we fly out of here again!
In the News!
Click this link to check out an article that was written about us in Canmore’s local paper!
September 20th marked the 2 year anniversary of the day that we left the town where we were living on the West Coast of Canada. (Read that post here.) While these last couple years have flown by in some respects, it has also felt like we have both lived a lifetime in them. When we left Powell River, it was impossible to predict where we would go and how it would all play out. And knowing what we know now, we could have never guessed any of it. It has been a journey of literally just putting one foot in front of the other, and living each day as it comes. We have done very little planning in advance, and we have really enjoyed watching the chips fall where ever they may. I know it is cliché, but we feel that the universe is guiding us, and the more we can let go of what we think we should be doing next, and resist the urge to plan, the more things fall into place perfectly all around us.
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