Over the course of 9 months in 2017, my partner and I sold all of our possessions, including 2 vehicles, and a house full of stuff. In order to sell the house for its maximum value, we also completed 3 months of renovations that had been lingering for over 3 years. We wrapped up 2 businesses and left a town and tight knit community that we both cherished. We did all of this in order to seek out a life of freedom, away from the hustle and bustle of the 9-5 life, but most importantly, we did it so that we could travel. This is our story…….
On September 20th, 2018, we celebrated our one year anniversary of being Location Independent. It’s hard to describe in words what that means to us, or how it makes us feel. It is definitely hard to believe that it’s been a year already, but at the same time, we have experienced and done so much that it could easily fit into some peoples lifetime of experiences.
On that day in 2017, we left a town that we both loved. We weren’t leaving it because we were tired of it, or sick of it per se. No, instead we were leaving it because we wanted to take a chance at living an exciting and exhilarating life. We wanted to see what the heck was out there. We wanted to see life from a different perspective and learn how others live around the world.
Most of all, we wanted freedom.
We wanted to be the ones dictating our time. We wanted to be the ones in the drivers seat. We were tired of living life while conforming to some sort of unwritten standards that society had presented us with. We were tired of seemingly working so hard, but never getting anywhere. While there is so much more that I can say on this topic, I will leave it for now, as this isn’t a post about ditching the conventional life…….well I guess it is, all of my posts are, really. But no, I want to dive into what we have learned in a year, a couple key takeaways from living life in the tropics, and how we have shifted and grown during this year.
Let’s talk about the weather.
Experiencing perpetual summer for a whole year has been interesting. Watching friends and family chat about the weather and the changing seasons on Facebook has been entertaining. I’ve really noticed how much energy is put into either loving the weather or hating it. How people post about the snow and the rain, reporting on what mother nature is dishing out in their neighbourhood. Now don’t get me wrong, I have certainly posted things about the weather from down here, but I have to say, it certainly doesn’t occupy my brain or my time like it did while living in the North. I can see how seasons dictate our lives up there. We are either planning for winter, or planning for summer. Getting out the summer gear, or putting it away for the winter. We garden in the summer, hibernate in the winter. We go camping and enjoy the outdoors in the summer, stay warm and indoors in the winter. For good reason obviously, the temperature dictates our lives in the northern climes.
Down here, everyday is the same. Most days we get a bit of rain (and let me tell you it does rain HARD when it does), but it never lasts long. Usually no more than an hour or 2 at the most, then it clears off again and it’s business as usual. Nobody frets about it, nobody looks at weather forecasts, nobody seems to care one way or the other what happens, they just take it as it comes. If it’s raining, they may take an umbrella, but they certainly don’t let rain get in the way of them accomplishing their tasks for the day. It’s literally a non issue. Unless of course a hurricane is coming, but if that is the case, everybody knows that there is nothing that they can do about it. If it happens, it happens and they just need to hunker down and ride it out. There is no worrying about it, or preparing for it, it just is. They do not give it ONE OUNCE of energy.
Creating community and calling a place home.
After now living in our 3rd place for over 3 months at a time, we have begun to notice some trends in our ability to create community. It seems that it takes a little while to really start to feel like we belong in a place, like we have friends and a bit of a network around us. However, it has happened, each and every time.
Eventually people start to recognize us in the neighbourhood, and notice that they have now seen us for longer than they would see other travellers for. They start to ask us our names and shake our hands, and say hello as we pass. Chris’ large stature is a hit with the local men, and they all want to high five and fist bump him whenever they get the chance. I think secretly they all want to look like him as well:). After a time, we start to feel like we have a support network, and that if we need anything, any of our community members will happily help us out.
After a couple months in one place, we start to notice that some things also start to annoy us. Like the drunken man next door that tries to speak slurring-ly over the fence at us in some sort of broken drunken spanglish. Or the lancha (boat) driver that still tries to charge us the tourist rate, when we have told him numerous times that we are living here and we are supposed to get the locals rate (because that’s what every other driver charges us).
Something else we have noticed, is that no matter how hard we try, it seems, our lives seem to get surrounded in some sort of crazy drama. It’s never our drama, it’s always that of others, and of course, we try to keep an arms length away from it all, but somehow we simultaneously get in knee deep before we realize it has happened. The drama never has anything to do with us, but we somehow become emotionally involved in other peoples lives. It’s an interesting thing to notice, but I’m not sure there is much we can do about it. We are both compassionate and caring people and, well, I think it’s just part of our make up. Surmise it to say that we never get involved enough that our personal freedoms are threatened, that’s for sure. But it’s interesting to note that it exists every where we go. I guess it’s just human nature after all.
Missing places yet always feeling the need to move on.
The other night, as we cruised back across the lake from Flores, to our Home in San Miguel, I took a moment to take in the sights around us. It was a perfectly still night, the lights were reflecting off the water in the stunning manner that they do. Our shuttle across the lake was filled with locals and their motorbikes, coming home from their busy days.
I turned to Chris and said “We are going to miss this.” We love riding the boat back and forth to town, and at the end of a busy day, it’s the tranquility and peacefulness of it all that sheds the stresses and busyness of being in the city and amongst the traffic and noise. Once out on the water it feels like it all falls away.
Chris agreed, yup, we are going to miss this. But in the split second it took him to say yes, I also realized that we had said this before. We said it when we left Matapalo, and our 4 months of living on a spectacular Costa Rican beach. I stated “Ya, but we said that when we left Matapalo as well.” He replied “Ya and I still miss that beach.”
Yeah, I do too, there is no doubt about that! But instead of voicing this, I said “Yeah, but if we had never left there, then we wouldn’t know what else is out there to miss.”
“Fair enough” he said.
We wouldn’t have had our experience in Guatemala, floating in a boat across this perfectly still lake. We wouldn’t have had our exciting, yet sometimes crazy, experience in Nicaragua. We wouldn’t have experienced living in the base of the Costa Rican mountains, in a traditional Costa Rican house, the jungle around us rife with parrots and Scarlett macaws, Toucans and Butterflies. We quite simply would not have a lifetime of stories to tell in one year, if we hadn’t have left that beach.
This is the life that we have chosen. This is the life that we want to live. We love the feeling of community, we love getting to know a place, and to make it home for the time being, but we also like to leave, to set out into a new frontier, to find a new and interesting place. We don’t know if it will be better, we don’t know if it will be worse, but it will be different, and that is all that matters.
We now know with 100% certainty, that if we can create community in three places so far, we can create community wherever we go. It is out there, it is all around us, we just need to reach out for it.
Soaring confidence and creativity.
This year, after pulling ourselves away from so many distractions that we both faced up North, we have found that our creativity has soared. We literally can not get our ideas for art out of our head, and onto paper, canvas or walls quick enough. Through this, we have begun to find an inner confidence in ourselves that I know both of us were lacking while living in the north, and among so many other talented artists in our community.
This confidence has spread out into the rest of our lives. We are realizing that if we can paint a mural, something both of us would NEVER have attempted while in Canada, then we can do anything. In fact, I have had a book idea about creativity that has been brewing for some years now, and I am finally getting down to writing it. It is coming out of me bit by bit, but it is coming none the less. So stay tuned for that on the horizon!
Because of this new found confidence, on October 13th, we are hosting our very first art show! While in Flores, our rented house has had no wifi (which is also my excuse for not keeping up with the blog), so our nights have mostly been spent deep in creativity. Whether it is drawing or painting or working on the iPad, we have both created an pretty astounding body of work while here.
So, because we are Nomads, and we can’t possibly drag around every piece of art that we create, we have decided that it’s best to sell our originals as we go. The show will be hosted at San Telmo, a funky bohemian bar that has an incredible Terrace upstairs that looks out over the lake. In this spot, we have also been painting a couple murals for the last 3 weeks, so it will double as an unveiling of those. We are approaching this with nervousness and apprehension as it is the first official art show that either of us has ever had. But we know that it is just like everything else that we have accomplished on this trip so far, we just have to summon up the courage and go for it! Hopefully we sell a bunch as they will certainly be priced to sell, but don’t worry! We have found a place in Flores that will scan them for us and we will be able to upload them to our online platforms and share them with you on Facebook and beyond!
As per usual, we are so grateful for this life we have chosen and for the people that have supported us along the way. Thank you for reading and we look forward to sharing more news about our next adventure very soon!
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Current Location: We are currently in Palenque, Mexico on a quick one week trip to renew our 90 day visa for Guatemala.
Travelling Plans: On September 30th, we will return to Flores until Approximately October 15th. Then we will start heading west again and up to Oaxaca, Mexico for about one month. On November 26th, we will be housesitting on the Caribbean Coast of Guatemala for 6 weeks.
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